tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post7149545402039770555..comments2024-02-02T16:17:50.965+01:00Comments on It's Toinlicious: RE: WIFEY MATERIALToinlicioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08672236565492184927noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-68340000278039773542013-07-20T16:13:21.493+01:002013-07-20T16:13:21.493+01:00loool! soo true.. loool! soo true.. Abi Tobihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13064877647578049631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-32209760804600519502013-07-08T16:56:25.673+01:002013-07-08T16:56:25.673+01:00OH my I had a comment typed up and my useless inte...OH my I had a comment typed up and my useless internet connection just cut off and everything vamoose.<br /><br />But I love love love this post, as you can tell from the fact that I only saw it one month later - whoops.<br /><br />And I can see that all the other commenters loved it as well but I no fit read all the comments. However, I over agree with CherryWine biko.<br /><br />CherryWine just preached the unrefined, unadulterated gospel that man better realize that he is also being checked for Husband material.<br /><br />So you live like a pig and you want a slave? On to the next one lol<br /><br />Amazing post ToinOge (NR)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12855820897071831855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-17120480420238270202013-06-29T12:58:38.258+01:002013-06-29T12:58:38.258+01:00Seriously Enkay u said my mind abt tellin hubby to...Seriously Enkay u said my mind abt tellin hubby to buy a washin machine. B4 I got married to my hubby I told him point blank dat I won't wash his clothes(said it n a way dat if dats d reason e wants to get married to mi e shud call d weddin off). <br />Don't blame him dou cus e was spoilt silly by d women in his family, Dey did everytin for him. I made it clear to him dat we wre brought up difftly.<br />I didn't play wifey b4 marriage stil e married mi. Wen eva e s lyk his previous women n his lyf did all dis,wud tell him why didn't u marry dem.<br /><br />Ladies pls knw ur worth and stop playin wifey for bf. We shudnt b slaves to our partners and marriage s not a do or die affair.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-38117926891968115872013-06-11T08:50:26.660+01:002013-06-11T08:50:26.660+01:00That 11yrs relationship just breaks my heart...cha...That 11yrs relationship just breaks my heart...chai!!<br /><br />I've never cleaned and scrubbed in a relationship. The circumstance has never even presented itself. You clean your space, I clean mine. End of story.Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294850491382303707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-63582123560237569802013-06-09T20:00:28.786+01:002013-06-09T20:00:28.786+01:00*ahem* my two cents
I believe a man who wants a ...*ahem* my two cents <br /><br />I believe a man who wants a slave will find a wife who wants to be a Slave to marry. <br /><br />I didn't break my back for my husband in fact, when I visited and wanted to cook sometimes or help tidy up, he stopped me! Lol so I say different strokes men and I pray that beautiful single ladies would find men that are made for them not those that need their bathrooms cleaned!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-57500114831443558952013-05-28T09:35:42.376+01:002013-05-28T09:35:42.376+01:00Adede: Hi5 girl! Dude could not even help out in c...Adede: Hi5 girl! Dude could not even help out in church. Girl, i'm already the president of hate the Fucktard club. Ouch @ penis burning though. You mean business lol<br /><br />Nikkisho: Please guard those notes jealously. That's the Bible right there<br /><br />Simply Me: I agree. Both parties should simply be themselves. I've missed you sha.<br /><br />Atilola: Simples<br /><br />Tamie: I've met those too. They get so angry when you refuse. Mshew. Earn it and watch me cater to your ass but demand it and watch me kick your ass to the curb.<br /><br />Kitten: Staying true to yourself. I love.<br /><br />Nutty J: Better be you than pretend. ilike too.<br /><br />Sykik: Right on point. I hear you loud and clear. Always stay true.<br /><br />Enkay: I totally agree. If you're 9ja Foodie, then please cook away. It is very important to refuse to be used in that manner. It's a debt you owe yourself and your self esteem.<br /><br />Olufunlayo Ojo: My point exactly. Thanks for coming by. Hope to see more of you here.<br /><br />My SugarSugar: *collects hand* lol. Somebory will now Mugurize me? Mba. Amen to " May God help us realize our worth and remove scales from our eyes"<br /><br />Lara: Lmao. Me sef dey learn jere.<br /><br />Original Mgbeke: Thanks for showing for this party. The comments are seriously giving me life. Lol @the DNA bit but i totally agree.<br /><br />Aee Bonrue: You'll get three even. Here goes: GBAM! GBAM! GBAM! lol<br /><br />Feyi: Amen my sister. 11 years aint beans and aint nobody gat time fo' that<br /><br />Unyime-Ivy King: Thank you for the example in buttressing your point. Lol@ workaholic movement. <br /><br />Harold Writes: I don't know about the "always" part of your comment really but i'm assuming you're referring to the 11years bit. You'll notice that i blamed the babe too for that disaster. I definitely agree that more women need to rethink things. Thanks for stopping by. Hope to see more of you around here.<br /><br />DOHK: I'm loving the comments girl.<br /><br />Becks: I totally agree. You sef ask what as per 11 years ba? I don't know o. Full on 11years kwa? I tire<br /><br />Eya: I wonder too o<br /><br />OSB: I don't blame you. I'll drink to the advice of doing things that make You happy. At the end of the day, it's your life and you should live it for you. Lol @Winch. Thank God you're married lol.Toinlicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08672236565492184927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-31230788888162432472013-05-28T09:30:22.562+01:002013-05-28T09:30:22.562+01:00Anon 14:27: You've said it well. Be you...well...Anon 14:27: You've said it well. Be you...well except you're a pig lol.<br /><br />HoneyDame: Exactly. But bia, -10 yards kwa? Behave and start prepping for marriage o. Warris wrong witchu?<br /><br />Atoskin: *offers clap offering* lol. Hi5 my sister.<br />Gospel: "There is no point pretending to be what you're not because you will end up making life difficult for yourself trying to keep up with your fakeness"<br /><br />Tizzle baybay: I kent too. Seriously, different strokes. "Man know thyself and man know thy partner" Fini.<br /><br />Cherrylove: You did alla that? Oya wa gba hug. I'll put it down to experience. That guy deserves a knock though. You mean he broke up with all that domesticated hawtness? Even i could marry you for your cooking skills. Definitely his loss. Good riddance.<br />Here's the gospel: It is truly a thankless task if you do it for an undeserving guy. And those that demand it are the most undeserving. What I found is a guy that truly likes you and wants to impress you will clean up his own mess even before you get there, negating the need for you to get a-scrubbing" Preach sister.<br /><br />Kiky: Lmao @adding yours to his pile. Nicely played. I have a thing about washing my stuff myself actually. OCD issues.<br /><br />LadyNgo: Lol @ the hayle i look like cleaning up behind another grown and able-bodied adult? Just to get him to do me the favor of calling me wife material. I no fit shout (even though i've already started shouting lol). Feel free to shout biko. It's a serious enough matter.<br /><br />Jemima: And that is truly all. Thanks ma'am. So after cooking up a storm, another waste of space mshew. Sha tell me where i can order another copy of your hubby biko. Help a sister out lol.<br />Have i ever told you that I love your name? :D<br /><br />Dayor: She nailed it right? I agree.<br /><br />9ja's Great: A true opinion from a male. I agree about women not knowing their worth. I think it's greatly influenced by our patriarchal society that encourages women to think less of themselves if no man has bestowed the 'MRS' title on them. Bless you man. So where can i get a copy of you please lol<br /><br />Relentless Builder: Abi o. He was looking for excuses. Even if she had, he would probably still have walked. I don't like users too. Keep it moving please. Bigger nonsense.<br /><br />MsJB: Love truly simplifies these things. The guy's an ass no doubt but I blame the chic too. What i don't get is this; why keep the girl hanging when you absolutely know you're not 'wifing' her? Like, be honest and tell her exactly what the deal is. I'm all for honest communication. Small time, karma will strike and they'll blame the village witch.Toinlicioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08672236565492184927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-12611002216340749392013-05-27T06:40:38.882+01:002013-05-27T06:40:38.882+01:00I wished I could turn back the years,I did the wif...I wished I could turn back the years,I did the wifey thing,cooked,cleaned,but dint wash,and I even allowed the dog ease his tension with my body,some cooking were done with my money,and after each visit,he would give me like 3-5k.did that keep him,hell no,he left when he was done.<br />The truth is be been wifey and shagging does not keep a man.<br />Advise is to be you and you and make you happy,that is the only thing that matters.<br />Thank God am married now,I for don go collect winch to winch him.*runsaway*OSBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-19685936085325807942013-05-24T16:55:42.863+01:002013-05-24T16:55:42.863+01:00If you change to someone else to please a man, who...If you change to someone else to please a man, who will then be YOU?Eya Ayambemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13978894380925567294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-48304171305930854742013-05-24T15:43:08.984+01:002013-05-24T15:43:08.984+01:00As Sykik said,you shouldn't pretend to be who ...As Sykik said,you shouldn't pretend to be who you're not just to get him to marry you. If you visit him and you feel like cleaning and all,then it's cool but if you don't,relax and enjoy your stay. It is not a duty. <br /><br />But some girls can try ehn.. What will a girl be doing with a man for 11yrs?Becqui Nicholashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15623377783810590824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-29140297085059466702013-05-23T13:27:42.370+01:002013-05-23T13:27:42.370+01:00Thank you very much Haroldwrites. Much appreciated...Thank you very much Haroldwrites. Much appreciated. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15352880414907614135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-77095833539786269742013-05-23T00:05:41.834+01:002013-05-23T00:05:41.834+01:00The comments have rolled in and I must say the art...The comments have rolled in and I must say the article makes sense.....<br /><br />As atiola said some pple need a dose of self esteem.Daughter of Her Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-23310493942799615812013-05-22T21:53:13.006+01:002013-05-22T21:53:13.006+01:00Hey, Ivy-King. This reply is not related to the po...Hey, Ivy-King. This reply is not related to the post. I just want to say congrats on the publication of your latest book. Cheers! HaroldWriteshttp://www.haroldwrites.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-5172741411917759212013-05-22T21:41:50.956+01:002013-05-22T21:41:50.956+01:00Why do women always make themselves feel like the ...Why do women always make themselves feel like the victim? Whatever happens to a woman is always the man's fault. I won't say much. <br />Women need to rethink things.HaroldWriteshttp://www.haroldwrites.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-68457823748996074782013-05-22T20:04:32.269+01:002013-05-22T20:04:32.269+01:00I never washed any clothes, nor cooked any meals, ...I never washed any clothes, nor cooked any meals, except the one my hubby was served with at my parent's when he came visiting. Even when we visited his mum, I did not go the kitchen to start doing 'iyawo o.' I made sure my hubby to be knew the real me, warts and all, and it's not that I do not love cooking-I do, but I did not have to do it to dazzle him into ,marrying me.<br /><br />Now, as a married couple, going on 11years, I do not wash. There is a washing machine which was designed for that function, and the dry cleaner, lol. I used to wash a few items in the early years when we could not afford a washing machine, but not all the time, as he would wash his clothes. No one feels cheated or deceived at all because the cards were on the table from the beginning. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15352880414907614135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-4559238471351323462013-05-22T19:46:58.450+01:002013-05-22T19:46:58.450+01:00Toin, this post is very interesting and revealing....Toin, this post is very interesting and revealing. The mistake that many singles make, is to front a facade of what they are not, just to get a man to marry them. I do not think you need to pretend to be what you are not, and lose yourself, just to hook a man. I agree with you, no matter how a single girl gives a man 'free' services, and plays the role of a wife just to get a ring, when it is time, the man will still go for who he wants. I have a cousin whose brother was dating someone that would come to their home and slave away, just to impress potential in-laws. My cousin did marry her, but after the marriage, that was where the workaholic movement ended o. The babe showed her true colors and it caused a lot of resentments and issues in the family because everyone now saw her for the pretender she was.<br /><br />One of the things I believe a man would respect you for, or at least a real man, who has values and principles, is the fact that you are yourself-no pretenses. It may be good to scrub and clean, but if you do not feel like, you do not have to. Get hired help!!! Who is yours will be yours and marry you in spite of your warts and all.<br /><br /> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15352880414907614135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-62261489585842573312013-05-22T18:30:01.771+01:002013-05-22T18:30:01.771+01:00CherryWine is on point here though...ain't nob...CherryWine is on point here though...ain't nobody got time to be the house girl.<br /><br />11 years wasted just like that? God forbid!Feyinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-67988692350025507332013-05-22T10:03:30.112+01:002013-05-22T10:03:30.112+01:00"So there, if you like scrub the whole Lagos/..."So there, if you like scrub the whole Lagos/Ibadan expressway, cook like you are competing to be the next Food Network champion, clean like you are the next Clean House Host, or practice all the Kama Sutra positions to perfection, babe, if he won't marry you, he won't." <br /><br /><br />Can I hear a resounding "GBAM!" Anyone? <br /><br /> Aee Bonruehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18287574113066418928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-7077391586444802312013-05-21T22:51:06.282+01:002013-05-21T22:51:06.282+01:00I am loving the comments. Too much sense. I'm ...I am loving the comments. Too much sense. I'm telling you these guys are on serious Orishirishi business. I've always preached that we women should be ourselves. If cleaning/cooking is in your DNA then do it and if not don't even fake any funk. These men will use you to do serious see finish so don't dull yourself. Great post ToinOriginal Mgbekenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-79179843814505225152013-05-21T00:29:51.943+01:002013-05-21T00:29:51.943+01:00Socks self I no dey wash not come talk of getting ...Socks self I no dey wash not come talk of getting on all fours scrubbing for man...the comments are def interesting...learning and taking notes oh.Molara Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15028561658576923679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-19356606614175123422013-05-20T22:20:35.791+01:002013-05-20T22:20:35.791+01:00baby yi!!! gba owo ojere!! need i say more? you...baby yi!!! gba owo ojere!! need i say more? you've said it all!!<br />wash clothes? seriously!!! when i need someone to wash mine?hehehe..let's not go that path sweetie<br />choi!!! 11 years of someone's life ti so fo ni yen!! just like that. its sad and pathetic!!<br />May God help us realize our worth and remove scales from our eyes oosugarspringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208257691198385817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-3985329306001546802013-05-20T16:41:43.986+01:002013-05-20T16:41:43.986+01:00yeah, nice one. Aint no Man's house cleaner.If...yeah, nice one. Aint no Man's house cleaner.If he wont marry you, he definitely wont. So what are we talking about? Thumbs up.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12961355757501995244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-60909761949481612102013-05-20T12:23:06.473+01:002013-05-20T12:23:06.473+01:00If the gals do these things (Wash, Cook, Clean etc...If the gals do these things (Wash, Cook, Clean etc) out of love, because that is who they are and what they enjoy doing, then they should go ahead. That way, when bobo breaks up with her, she won't feel used.<br /><br />I did not do any cleaning or washing for hubby before we married but I did some cooking and it wasn't that "cook for storage'' kinda thing. It was "cook for lunch at the moment".<br /><br />I don't like washing clothes and even after we married, hubby was washing his own clothes. The first time it appeared there might be an issue with this arrangement, I asked him to buy us a washing machine because me I cannot spend my Saturdays bending over a pile of clothes. He did. Problem solved!Enkayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09513593787004243051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-28368410995246708372013-05-20T11:41:15.068+01:002013-05-20T11:41:15.068+01:00I think any lady should ask herself the basic ques...I think any lady should ask herself the basic question in a relationship. Are you trying to impress a guy into marrying you by cooking, cleaning, washing and scrubbing etc...that's a big fffoooouuuuulllll. I suggest as women, we learn to stay true to ourselves ...don't pretend to be who you are not just because you want him to put a ring on it. I presume we have all heard stories of guys who jilted the perfect, miss cook, miss cleaner, miss randy etc...that's because a man will love and marry you for YOU.sykikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05855422471431027518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8030588111745681239.post-65157812347280313162013-05-20T09:05:58.930+01:002013-05-20T09:05:58.930+01:00Nope. Never have, never will cater to any man dome...Nope. Never have, never will cater to any man domestically. I don't have a domestic bone in my body and I'm quite happy with it. I would certainly not have cleaned this man's bathroom... because I would just be pretending to be what I am not. <br /><br />And i'm too lazy to pretend this kine thing sef<br /><br /><br />(Kitten spoke my mind)Nutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.com