QUICK QUESTION

Early Sunday morning my people

I told you I was back! I even replied all the comments on my last post. As in en, i'm balling. As for the Indecent Proposal gist, things are still unfolding so I will bring you the gist as soon as it is all baked and ready to be shared. Which reminds me of a funny toast I got during my service year. I will share that in my next post so stay tunedlool. Who deserves a kiss? Me right? Right. Love you too *grin*

First things first, I need new neighbours. The current ones are of no use to me. Those people are just occupying space. I'll tell you why at the end of this post.

There's one thing I wish people would learn to stop doing. Please stop judging people you have not spoken with for a while because as much as you think you have a lot going on, they might be going through worse. They might also be protecting you from their issues or they might feel safer keeping it to themselves. Judging them or using that as an excuse is just poor judgement. Someone said assumption is the lowest form of knowledge and I know this is something we all do from time to time. I know I've done it as well. My point is, always try to clarify before you make decisions based on your assumptions.

“And if you insist on continuing to make assumptions about my character, I’ll advise you only this: assume you will always be wrong.” ― Tahereh Mafi, Ignite Me

“We all make assumptions every day. Some more important than others. Some more damaging than others. And things, very often, are not at all what they seem.” ― B.B. Shepherd

Moving on. I saw something amusing while reading Kitten's blog and I thought to bring it on here. Humour me please and do this little exercise. Please be straight with me. Go anon if you have to. Of course you don't completely know me, heck, even I don't completely know me yet so feel free to answer with no holds barred. I promise not to come hunting you with a cudgel hehehe

Question: What comes to your mind when you think of me? How do I come off on this blog? Tell me what you think about when you hear/see/read me. That's it. Easy peasy. Thanks.

Oh the picture of Pepper soup? Well, my sister's neighbour who is a chef woke her on Sunday morning with a steaming bowl of pepper soup. So please, this is why I need to chase my current neighbours. New neighbours are desperately needed. 9jafoodie, Lohi, any takers?

The plate of Amala, Efo riro, Stockfish aka panla and Snails was what I consoled myself with later that Sunday. Delicious compensation I must say.

And don't forget, when you get, give; when you learn, teach.

I'll be back

*kisses*