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So
i'm ranting today. It totally gets my goat when i hear someone whine about a particular
decision THEY made and then blame SOMEONE else for. I flip because i just
can't. Like seriously? So you made some poor choices that you feel ashamed about?
We've been there. We've made choices we're not too proud of but putting that
blame on someone else is just plain cowardly. Who made the choice? You! That's
right. You made the choice. You! No
one else but You so why not just
suck it up and deal? Own it and move on but don't place that blame elsewhere.
Lay it squarely at your feet.
Yes,
you asked A and B for advice, you swallow what they tell you hook, line and
rotten maggot, the advice didn't work out for you and you turn around and blame
them while properly absolving yourself of any responsibility? Please sit it all
the way down in the corner right there.
If
no one puts a gun to your head and says do this, you can't hold anyone
responsible for your life choices. If you ask friends for advice, the onus
falls on you to sieve whatever you get and make responsible decisions to the
best of your ability. By all means, seek advice but please think about the pros
and cons before settling on a path
Sometimes
i want to slap people for making that "if it wasn't for so and so, i wouldn't
have done bla bla". That right there is the reason you are an adult with a
brain. You thought it was there to keep your skull company honey? Sorry to disappoint
you but no. It is there to be used efficiently and effectively. You're welcome
:D
"In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape
ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately
our own responsibility"-Eleanor Roosevelt
See, i
even found a corny quote to prove my point.
#end
of rant
How are y'all doing? Awesome i hope.
P.S: Who has seen NIL
P.P.S: I went on Verastic and saw an oyinbo chic singing naija songs and i instatly fell in lust. Watch her and tell me you don't think she's coolness + awesomeness = Amazeballs :D
P.P.S: I went on Verastic and saw an oyinbo chic singing naija songs and i instatly fell in lust. Watch her and tell me you don't think she's coolness + awesomeness = Amazeballs :D
Have an amazing weekend. Like
Priscy would say, Peace, i'm out :D
